"As we've found with other large criminal groups, if you take their money and lock up their leaders you can loosen their grip on the vast organizations used to carry out their criminal activities,".

VOA: standard.2009.03.24

.. What you can't change, loses-- when you focus on the fact that you can't change it, it loses some of its grip to upset you.

你无法改变的-,当你专注于”你无法改变它“这个事实，它就不会让你那么难受。

耶鲁公开课 - 死亡课程节选