At the top of it is the head of the household, the man, the paterfamilias.

金字塔顶端是一家之主，男人，即家长。

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He doesn't literally mean even that when we talk to ourselves somebody pats us on the head " and says, "Good man. Perfect. I'm very proud."

他更不是在说,当我们自言自语时,会有人拍拍我们的头,说“做的好，非常棒，我为你自豪“

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