What if you have intimacy,we share secrets, passion, we feel physically attracted to each other but we're not making any commitments here."

如果有亲近关系，和激情体验,但是不做承诺“

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But our engineers work in a three-star hotel, not very flashy, not on the spotlight, and I only promised them to raise their salaries twice a year.

而我们的工程师在三星级酒店工作，不豪华，更不引人关注，我只承诺每年涨两次薪水。

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This is often the way relationships start "We like each other, I'm physically attracted to each other, I-- to you, I enjoy spending time with you but I'm not making any long-term commitments.

爱情经常以这种形式开场,我们喜欢对方，享受肌肤之亲-,享受一起度过的时光,但不做长远的承诺。

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And a few seconds later, he says "Mr. Bernstein, you don't expect me to keep my promises, do you?" And Berstein laughs like the little toady that he is and says, "Oh, yes!"

几秒之后他说,伯恩斯丁先生，你不希望我,恪守承诺吧，不是么,伯恩斯丁笑了“

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He tried to intimidate us too much with his promise of impossible grading so that everyone took the class credit/D/fail, when we all probably ended up with As or Bs.

他经常试着吓唬我们,通过他承诺的不可能的分数等级,所以每个人都虔诚的来上课/D/不及格，当我们几乎都已As或Bs结束时。

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Or we've got to stay together for appearance's sake or we'd better stay together because financially it would be a disaster if we don't or all of the reasons other than intimacy and passion that people might commit to each other.

或者为了顾全家庭的脸面,最好还是生活在一起,如果任由关系破裂，经济上对双方是一个灾难,各种原因不解释，惟独不包括亲近和激情,两个人承诺在一起。

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