If you can somehow create a personal relationship with someone who you disagree with, take them for coffee and say: "I just want to hear your point of view."

如果你们能够以某种方式建立友谊,彼此虽然意见不同，你可以和他们一起喝咖啡然后说：,我只想听你的观点“

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