你是不是总把别人放在首位，愿意让别人高兴？

Or are you someone who is a more of a pleaser who puts others first?

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“听着，孩子们，”他说：“你们曾让别人高兴过吗？”

"Now, children," she says "Did you make someone else glad?"

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低等艺术是买去让别人高兴的，又或者买去让它和家里的沙发配套。

Low art is bought to impress others or because it matches the sofa.

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Gary Gilmore The serial killer Gary Gilmore basically said the pain of others gratified him and caused him no unhappiness at all.

连环杀手,基本上就说过别人的痛苦,让他很高兴，他一点都不讨厌。

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