记住，人们都喜欢聊聊自己，所以在面试时，把关注点放在他们身上而不你的身上。

Remember that people love to talk about themselves, so in the interview, keep the focus on them, not you!

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你如何做到这一点而不直接问别人?

How do you do this without directly asking the other person?

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你可以恭敬地进行争辩，而不激起愤怒。

You can engage in an argument respectfully without stirring up anger.

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You blame yourself as a victim of trauma for not having the sufficient vigilance in your outer cortex to ward it off.

你会因为你的脑皮层,不能有效保护你不受创伤危害,而成为创伤受害者。

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and your boss comes to you with a very large project when you already have much work to do.

你的老板找到你，希望你参与一个大型项目，而你自己的工作已经快忙不过来了。

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Specifically, what is it that American companies that, both then and now, still don't understand about China that you think you do and they don't?

美国公司对于中国的互联网行业，始终不甚了解,能否谈谈一些你知道而别人不知道的原因？

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