我的问题是：你是否也曾基于理想中的自我来判断自己呢？
My question for you: Have you ever judged yourself based on the ideal you want to achieve?
所以个人档案往往描述了一个理想中的自我，一个具备了他们想要达到的品质的人(比如我会水肺潜水)或者他们曾经有过的条件(比如一份工作)。
So profiles often describe an idealized self; one with qualities they intend to develop (i.e., "I scuba dive") or things they once had (i.e., a job).
在亚洲人的人格观念中，个人主义或独立的自我并不是理想的。
In the Asian concept of personality, there is no ideal attached to individualism or to the independent self.
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