从他人处获得爱并没有错，但发现自我，或想从他人的爱中感受自我价值就成了问题。
There's nothing wrong with seeking love from others. Seeking ourselves, or our sense of self-worth in that love, is the problem.
正如鼻子是感知气味的器官一样，“道德观念，或‘道德感受器’的作用就是感知并处理自我与外界之间的固有矛盾。”
Thus, he writes, "The function of morality, or the moral organ, is to negotiate the inherent conflict between self and others."
这一个体的感受和他自己（象征性的或实际的）行为互动的能力，[17]我们定义为“自我。”
This interaction of the individual's feelings with his own (symbolic or actual) behavior, [17] we term "self."
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