有一件事我想知道–蒂姆到底有什么让你觉得那么不可抗拒？

There is one thing I would like to know – What is it about Tim that you find so irresistible?

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我认为在这其中的关键之一是，一旦你得到超过三，四个人在那里，你就会得到更多人，就会有更多的人觉得这可能是件有意义的事。

I think one of the keys in that is that one once you get more than three or four people there, the more people you get, the more other people are going to think something meaningful.

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这件事让他觉得很不好受，所以当他读我的书《你就是不懂：男人与女人的交谈》（百龄坛出版 1990），里面有一句话，“一起做一件事本身就是一种安慰，一种表示关切的方式”，他释怀了。

This made the man feel bad. So he was relieved to read in my book “You Just Don’t Understand” (Ballantine, 1990) that doing things together can be a comfort in itself, another way to show caring.

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