我不能自拔，我很想。

Want to, but I can't help it.

youdao

如果你陷于这样的困境不能自拔， 我先有你可以有两个方法来打破它。

If you feel stuck in this cycle of isolation, I think there are two main places you can break it.

youdao

确切说我是“喜欢”上了他，但他那与生俱来的浪漫举止以及戏剧化的语言——总是呢喃着“爱情，爱情”，都让我在这第一段法国恋情中不能自拔。

Actually I fell in "like", but his sweeping romantic gestures and dramatic language - tossing "amour, amour" around all the time - whirled me up in my first French "love" affair.

youdao