“有感觉，感觉到，找到了”的技术可能有用：“我理解你的感受。”

The 'feel, felt, found' technique may be useful: 'I understand how you feel.

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打个比方，在倾听过程中，你可以用“我觉得有点不舒服”来灵活的表达自己的感受，这样，倾诉者就不会感觉到自己的失落。

You share your feelings tactfully, so the other person won't feel put down.

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但是我认为那都是原始群落感受的细枝末节：有着不同信仰的人感觉到陌生，而任何陌生的东西都是危险的。

But I think that this is an offshoot of herd feeling: the man who has a different theology feels strange, and whatever is strange must be dangerous.

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in which we suddenly find ourselves, without meaning to and without being simply victims of any sort of cultural tyranny, standing in front of something, clasping our hands, tilting our head and feeling somehow or another different from the way we feel when we typically look at things.

我们会突然发现，自己毫无理由地,不受任何外在因素控制地，站在一样东西面前，拼命地鼓掌，歪着头品味，感觉到此时此刻的感受,与平时不同。

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