困难在于要尽力给孩子们灌输胜利的心态。

The tough thing is trying to instil a winning attitude in the kids.

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那不是我们的孩子所具有的心态。

That is not the mentality our kids have.

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帮助孩子看到成功，树立一种“我能”的心态。

Help your child see success and develop an "I can" attitude.

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So again this curiosity, this looking up, this opening up is opposed to closing down that kids have.

所以孩子们的这种好奇，这种寻找，这种开放的心态是与封闭相反的。

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