研究这一问题的人说，这很难确定，因为许多日本夫妇在接受调查时，称他们的婚姻是爱情的结合，即使是包办的婚姻。

It's hard to be sure, say those who study the matter, because many Japanese couples, when polled, describe their marriage as a love match even if it was arranged.

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我们的婚姻是我父母包办的。

Our marriage was arranged by my parents.

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他们的婚姻是包办的。

Their marriage is arranged one.

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Now what's interesting is in societies where marriages are arranged this is often the first stage of a love relationship.

有趣的是,在婚姻包办的社会里,这初始阶段的爱情。

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