你的内在小孩不明白为什么它总是被拒绝。

The child within you did not understand why it had deserved disapproval.

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这是你真正需要进行的内在小孩功课。

This is where you need to really do your Inner Child work.

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这是你的内在小孩或小我；是你的人性，随便你怎么称呼它。

This is the inner child or your ego; it is your humanness, however you may call it.

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And the idea, again, is the kids who don't get rewarded say to themselves, "Well, I just spent time doing it, it must have an intrinsic value," while the children who get rewarded say, "I did it for the sticker. I did it for the toy.

再一次，没有得到奖励的孩子心里想，“我花了时间来做这件事，它一定是有内在的价值的”,而拿到奖励的小孩会说，“我是为了贴纸和玩具才做的”

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