他们在与我们作战。

They are at war with us.

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然而他们(在思想感情上)与我们仍有距离。

They, however, maintained a distance from us.

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他们拒绝在平等的基础上与我们谈判。

They refused to treat with us on equal terms.

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So I think that by doing that, I can't force you to hang outside of work, but I can make it so that people are more with each other and can communicate more freely.

工作之余，我不能强迫大家也在一起，但能够让他们在与同事相处的时候,感觉更舒服，交流更自由。

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There I am not ashamed to speak with them and to ask them the reasons for their actions and they, in their humanity, reply to me.

在那儿，我不会羞于与他们对话,及询问关于他们行为的原因,而他们总是慈爱地回答我。

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