这不只是什么悲观不悲观的问题。

But the problem is not simply pessimism.

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所以我们并不着急，也不悲观，泰然处之。

So we are not worried or pessimistic about them, we take them calmly.

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我们不会放弃，我们也不悲观，我们有决心走出这个时期。

We don't feel like giving up and we are not sad, but we are fiercely determined to get out of this moment.

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And pessimists might be those who say, "No, no. On balance, " the negative of death outweighs the positive-ness of life."

而悲观主义者可能会说，“不，不，总的来说，死亡的负面性要盖过生命的积极性“

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Against that, I suppose, you've got pessimists-- pessimists who say, " "No, no. Although life perhaps has some good things, " the overall grand balance " is negative for everybody in every circumstance.

与之相反还有悲观主义者-,悲观主义者会说，“不，也许生活有些美好的事情，“但总体的结果,“在任何情况下对任何人都是负数。

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So, even if we were to agree with the pessimists that it would be better never to have been born at all, as the old joke goes, show me one person in a thousand who's so lucky, right?

所以，即使我们要同意悲观主义者的观点,根本不出生更好，就像老笑话讲的那样，给我千里挑一找到一个走运的人？

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