Share your unhappiness with your manager only.

只向你的经理倾诉你的不满。

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Then see if you can "put your finger" on the cause of your unhappiness.

接下来，你再看看是否可以亲自“插手”诊断出是什么原因让自己愁眉不展。

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It is you -not your environment, not your job, not your family -that is the cause of your unhappiness and emptiness.

是你自己而不是你的环境、工作或家庭使你感到苦恼和空虚。

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So again, if you're at X and the winner is at Y, it hurts you minus the distance between X and Y, in terms of your unhappiness, about having a winner who's far away from you, winning.

再说一遍,如果你在X且获胜者在Y,它对你的伤害等于X和Y之间的距离,即,当选人和你之间的距离,这就是你在选举之后郁闷的程度

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And there's your pecking order of unhappiness, in a nutshell.

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On the other hand, when times are stressful or conflicted, intuiting the unhappiness of your significant other can put a strain on things, particularly on your well being and possibly on your overall satisfaction with the relationship.

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Yet it is a widening gap between your expectations and what you actually have which predicts unhappiness.

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