Your girlfriend's fear seems to interlock with your fear.

你女友的恐惧看来和你的恐惧相关。

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Forget your fear and just talk to someone.

忘掉你的恐惧，和别人谈谈。

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To overcome your fear of speaking in the public, you can receive training in this aspect.

为了克服你对公众演讲的恐惧，你可以接受这方面的培训。

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"Also it took away a lot of your fear of melodrama as well because it felt kind of seismic, if that's the right word.

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ROB STEWART: "You're underwater and you see the thing that you were taught your whole life to fear.

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What, then, is the secret to getting over your fear of public speaking?

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So much of success is mental, i.e. recognizing your fear and moving forward anyway.

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Control, all-or-nothing thinking, and tunnel vision are the byproducts of your fear.

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