Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness, and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.

疾病、伤痛、爱情、与成功失之交臂，以及彻彻底底的糊涂犯错，这些都是你对精神极限的考验。

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Departing is kind of inevitable test, in which if your love is not solid enough, you have to face the failure without any grudge.

分开是一种必然的考验，如果你们感情不够稳固，只好认输，真爱是不会变成怨恨的。

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A better approach is to state your feelings and make a request that your partner can accept, modify, or say no to, without fearing it is a test of love.

更好的解决途径是陈述你的感觉和做出能让你的伴侣接受和改正的请求，而不是说那是对爱情的验证。

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