Following each contract renewal, I personally hand write a thank you card to every member of the company who works directly with the business.

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Write a letter or make a card: Again a little inexpensive effort goes a long way.

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If a restaurant chooses to note your preferences, that information may be typed into its OpenTable System manually just as a restaurant might write a note on an index card.

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