realize themselves life value 实现自己的人生价值
Women love men who value themselves with a high level of respect.
女人爱很重视自尊的男人。
"Small Meats" is once called the "cute characters" : they are not arrogant, do not value themselves too highly and very cute but not disgusting.
曾有人将“小鲜肉”们称为“萌系产物”:不高高在上,也不自视甚高,都有接地气的可爱,以卖萌为主。
Compassion: Accepting yourself as you actually are rather than playing an ideal role, and also accepting others for who they actually are so that they are inspired to value themselves.
慈悲:接受真正的那个自己(真我),而不是仅仅在生活中扮演理想中的自己(理想我),同样,学会接纳他人,鼓励别人自我疼惜。
And the idea, again, is the kids who don't get rewarded say to themselves, "Well, I just spent time doing it, it must have an intrinsic value," while the children who get rewarded say, "I did it for the sticker. I did it for the toy.
再一次,没有得到奖励的孩子心里想,“我花了时间来做这件事,它一定是有内在的价值的”,而拿到奖励的小孩会说,“我是为了贴纸和玩具才做的”
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