To avoid fooling yourself, watch out for excuses and try this test: Ask how you would feel if your actions were public and anyone could be watching over your shoulder.
为了避免欺骗自己,可以小心自己的各种借口并试试这个测试:问问自己,如果你的行为是公开的,而且任何人都可能在背后看着你,你会有什么感觉。
试试这个测试:微笑。
Try this test: smile. Now try to think of something negative without losing the smile.
微笑让你保持积极试着一下测试:先微笑一个,再马上微笑着想一下消极的事情。
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