I don't especially want to meet her, but I do want him to keep living once I no longer understand.

并不一定要见她，但是我的确希望，即使在我不那么理解时，他的生活还一如既往。

youdao

Though you may not realize this trait of the Cancer woman when you meet her for the first time, once you get to know her more closely you will definitely come to know about this trait of hers.

当你第一次跟巨蟹女见面的时候，可能搞不懂她，但你一旦开始了解她，就会毫无疑问的发现她身上的一些巨蟹座特点。

youdao

I recently met my good friend over dinner and it was great meeting her after a long time. We made the commitment to meet up at least once every month so we wouldn't lose touch.

我最近也见了一个老朋友，感觉非常不错，我们还相约今后至少每月见一次。

youdao

Once you get an introduction, take that relationship offline and meet him or her for coffee or set up an informational interview.

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