Though you may not realize this trait of the Cancer woman when you meet her for the first time, once you get to know her more closely you will definitely come to know about this trait of hers.

当你第一次跟巨蟹女见面的时候，可能搞不懂她，但你一旦开始了解她，就会毫无疑问的发现她身上的一些巨蟹座特点。

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Once you get an introduction, take that relationship offline and meet him or her for coffee or set up an informational interview.

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