Sternberg would argue it's not love if you don't call it love and if you don't have some desire to maintain the relationship.

斯登伯格认为，如果你不称之为爱，并且不愿意维持这段关系，那么这就不是爱。

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I like you, but it's not love.

我喜欢你但这不是爱。

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But I still love you, I keep telling myself it's not love, obsession, is control.

但我仍然爱你，我会一直告诉我自己这不是爱，不是执着，而是控制。

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But if you set out trying to implement this whole story line at once, if you set out trying to implement a cookie love story, it's just not gonna fly.

但是如果你一开始就想一次啃掉整块蛋糕,譬如你一开始就想,完成这个饼干人的爱情故事，你会发现这是行不通的。

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You'd love to have a system that spots that for you, but it's not possible.

你需要一个系统来帮你记录这些，但是这不可能。

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The person is not likely to say, "Oh, I bet it's love."

我朋友不太可能说，，“我猜是爱“

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But it's not just newfound love that is making Jamie feel, thrillingly, like he's on a runaway train.

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