昨天脸上刚挨了一巴掌，现在，这些想法看上去有些一厢情愿，但是有时侯塞翁失马，焉知非福？

After yesterday's slap in the face this may sound like wishful thinking, but sometimes bad turns have positive unintended consequences.

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当丘吉尔在1945年的大选中落败的时候，他的妻子克莱曼婷告诉他“塞翁失马，焉知非福”。

When Winston Churchill was defeated in the 1945 general election, his wife, Clementine, told him it was "a blessing in disguise".

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当然，事情可能会变得很糟，但是塞翁失马焉知非福，所以应该停止抱怨，寻求解决方案，最重要的是，要坚信自我，摆脱负面思维。

Find solutions instead of complaints. And most of all, learn to believe in yourself, and to block out negative self-thinking.

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