Stress is generally driven by the feeling of being out of control of a situation, and the feeling of a situation controlling you.

压力通常源于无法控制局面，或者感觉局面在控制你。

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For men, becoming emotional is seen as being out of control.

对男人而言，情感流露是失控的表现。

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This nightmare can reflect a feeling of not being able to move forward in life or of one's life being out of control.

这类噩梦反映的是实际生活中不能前进或是生活失去控制的感觉。

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He bought the loyalty of his soldiers, when they were being taken out of his control.

他收买了士兵的忠心，当他们正要离开他的控制的时候。

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In police interviews she also confessed to beating her son for no reason and that her anger often led to her being out of control.

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Being stuck in traffic, it was like being out of control.

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