I think that you don't really have self possession if you choose to live in a society because you cannot just discount the people around you.
我认为，如果你选择生活在社会中，就不可能完全拥有自我，因为你不能无视周围的人的存在。
We live with a value system that I call the Extrovert Ideal—the omnipresent belief that the ideal self is gregarious, and comfortable in the spotlight.
我们生活在一个我称之为“外向理想型”的价值体系中——一个无处不在的信念，即理想的自我是善于交际的，在聚光灯下感到舒适的。
Will others think I am not holding myself accountable if I act as if I deserve self forgiveness even if I have done things to be ashamed of and should be held accountable for?
即使我已经对自己行为感到羞愧并且觉得应对此负责，而别人会因为我的自我宽恕而认为我根本未对此事负责么？
Does self forgiveness mean that I no longer hold myself accountable?
难道说自我宽恕就意为这无需再对自己的行为负责了么？
This is not a problem, as it is possible to do self hypnosis, and I will show you how.
这很简单，因为可以进行自我催眠，那么接下来我将展示给你怎么做。
I would like to tell my younger self what I've learned, but without my mistakes and lessons, I wouldn't be who I am now.
这些道理，我真想告诉年轻时的自己；但如果不犯那些错，不受那些教训，我也不会变成现在的我。
But the question remains, how do all those parallel computations become integrated, and how does the self feel that "I" made the decision?
但问题依然存在，所有这些并行计算是如何整合起来的，自我如何感觉到是“我”做了这个决定？
And though I will never play World Cup soccer, I can aspire to be my strongest self.
尽管我永远不会去踢世界杯，但是，我依然向往强壮的自己。
I used to long to be normal but, because I tend to break things down, my sense of self was thousands of fragments of memories that I was trying to piece together.
我曾经非常想成为一个正常人，但是由于我总是将事物分割和细化，我对自我的认识只是一堆需要拼凑起来的零碎记忆。
In the end, I must affirm my authentic self, and thereby see transparently what and who I am.
最终，我必须确认本真的自我，由此清楚地看到我是什么和我是谁。
I asked mother—and she said she'd ask Mrs. Medlock her own self.
我问了妈妈，她说她自己也要问问梅洛太太。
Then for a little while the house feels huge and empty, and I wonder where my self is hiding.
于是有那么一会儿，我会感到整个房子非常大，空荡荡的。不知此时的自我又藏匿于何处。
Whether I brought home an A (or, later, secured a coveted fellowship, internship, or job) or not – and there were times I didn’t – I knew my self worth.
不管我带回家的成绩单上是否是A（或者以后是否能够获得令人觊觎的奖学金，实习机会，或工作），即使有些时候答案是否定的，我也知道自己的的价值。
I find that it's hard to trust or know a single person truthfully or completely, as I don't know my own self completely either.
我发现要完全信任或了解一个人是很难的，因为我也无法完全了解我自己。
Some activities I do include listening to self help podcasts and typing my articles on my laptop.
我做的一些活动包括听自助播客，往笔记本电脑上输入我的文章。
"I have an instinct for survival, for self-preservation," he reflects.
“我要生存，我要自我保护，这就是我的本能，”他会这样想。
Although I didn't realize it at the time, I was instinctively practicing poetry self-therapy as a means of helping myself grieve.
尽管当时没有意识到，但是我正在本能地运用诗歌自我疗法帮助自己面对悲伤。
I felt so self-conscious under Luke's mother's intense gaze.
在卢克母亲热切的注视下，我感到很不自在。
Under the inspiration of my parents, I regained my self-confidence.
在父母的鼓舞下，我找回了自信。
For example, I've always assumed people who frequently use words like "I", "me", and "mine" are probably more self-centered than people who don't.
例如，我总是假设经常使用“我”和“我的”等词的人，可能比不经常使用的人更以自我为中心。
For some women I know, this sense of trust and self-belief later in life gave them the courage to leave dysfunctional relationships or embark on new career paths.
对一些我认识的女性来说，这种信任感和自信心在日后给了她们离开不正常人际关系的勇气，或是从事新职业的勇气。
I hope it's something you'd never have to use, but it's certainly worth going along to a few self-defence sessions.
我希望这是你永远都用不上的东西，但是去参加一些自卫课程当然是值得的。
The $11 billion self-help industry is built on the idea that you should turn negative thoughts like "I never do anything right" into positive ones like "I can succeed".
价值110亿美元的自助行业是建立在这样一个理念上的：你应该把诸如“我从来没有做对任何事”之类的消极想法转变成诸如“我可以成功”之类的积极想法。
As I improved my self-esteem and my appearance, almost everyone I came across treated me with more respect.
当我在提升自己的自尊和外表时，几乎所有遇见我的人都对我更加尊重。
We are talking about recreation, I have nothing against self-improvement.
我们现在谈论的是娱乐，当然我并不反对任何形式的自我改进。
The second thought was fear, channelled into self-preservation: I jumped out of bed and grabbed my clothes from the floor.
第二个念头就是恐惧，继而变成了自我保护：从床上蹦出，抓过地上的衣服。
I will not say something that will hurt others' self-esteem. Maybe I have done it in the past unconsciously, but I did not notice.
我也自认为不会说一些伤害别人自尊心的话，或许我说了自己也没觉察吧。
I imagined how profoundly her lowered self-esteem affected the way she interacted with her children.
我能想象她降低了的自信会如何深刻影响她与她的孩子的交流。
I imagined how profoundly her lowered self-esteem affected the way she interacted with her children.
我能想象她降低了的自信会如何深刻影响她与她的孩子的交流。
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