When Dr. Gottman really wants to assess whether a couple will stay together, he invites them to his island retreat for a much longer evaluation: two days, not two seconds.
如果戈特曼博士真的想要评估一对夫妇是否会在一起,他会邀请他们到他的岛上静修处进行一个更长的评估:持续两天,而不是两秒钟。
John Gottman, the marriage expert, explains that we quickly "thin slice" information reliably only after we ground such snap reactions in the "thick sliced" long-term study.
婚姻专家约翰·戈特曼解释说,只有长期进行“大块”信息的基础研究,我们才能快速而又可靠地做出反应,实现“薄片式”信息切分。
Others mentioned as pioneering researchers in the field include John Gottman and Paul Eckman.
其他如在上述领域的开拓性研究,包括约翰·高特曼和保罗·埃克曼。
Gottman stresses that it's crucial for couples to tackle major marriage problems before the infant arrives.
Gottman强调指出在婴儿出生前,对主要婚姻问题的处理对夫妇来说是至关重要的。
Divorces in this phase of life are often marked by coldness and emotional withdrawal, according to Gottman and Levenson's 2000 study.
根据戈特曼和利文森的2000字研究报告,离婚在生命的这一阶段经常打上冷淡和情感退潮的烙印。
The researcher John Gottman has found that among married couples, it takes at least five positive comments to offset one negative one.
JohnGottman研究员发现,在结婚人群中,至少五次正面的评价才能抵消一个负面的评价。
Gottman asserts that there is ample evidence to suggest that the more someone receives or sees kindness, the more they themselves will be kind.
戈特曼声称有足够的证据表明,人接受到和看到的善意越多,就会越发向善。
However, in couples therapy there are the Gottman Institute's "four horsemen of the apocalypse" signs, which are good to know about and look for.
在夫妻关系治疗中有一些戈特曼研究所的“天启四骑士”式的迹象,了解和注意这些迹象是有益的。
In fact, John Gottman and his colleagues have found that satisfied married couples had five positive interactions to every one negative interaction (Gottman, 1994).
事实上,约翰·高特曼和他的同事们发现,已婚夫妇有五个满意良性互动的每一个负面作用(高特曼,1994)。
In fact, John Gottman and his colleagues have found that satisfied married couples had five positive interactions to every one negative interaction (Gottman, 1994).
事实上,约翰·高特曼和他的同事们发现,已婚夫妇有五个满意良性互动的每一个负面作用(高特曼,1994)。
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