然而，两个方面情况并不如意。
There are, however, two areas in which things are not going well.
不如意的时候不要尽往悲伤里钻，想想有笑声的日子吧。
Do not put yourself in the deep of sorrow when you feel unpleasant, think about the days with laughters.
我曾有很多不如意的机会，但是我没有理会它们。
I've had plenty of opportunities, but I haven't taken any of those opportunities.
不如意时，要有解决问题的决心，也要有放松的心态。
During difficult times, be committed to resolving problems, but also lighten up and ride the waves of impermanence.
第二点是记住“人生总有不如意时”，因此要居安思危。
The second lesson was to remember that "sometimes life can turn sour", and to be prudent.
这一结果并不如意，但不用为公司老板郑裕彤感到难过。
That may be less lucrative than it hoped for, but do not shed any tears for Cheng Yu-tung, the firm’s billionaire boss.
当体制不如意时，在体制内改良的效果不会差于直接对抗。
You can have as much, if not more, impact by working within the system than by confronting it when it doesn't work the you want it to.
在你的职业生涯中，有时候会是机会很好，但是薪水不如意。
At some point in your career, the chances are good that you'll feel unsatisfied with your salary.
在你抱怨食物味道不如意之前——想想那些没有东西吃的人。
Before you complain about the taste of your food-think of someone who has nothing to eat.
男人跟一个女人结婚，万一婚姻不如意的话也是浪费她的青春。
If a man marries a woman but their marriage is not successful, he is wasting her time, too.
世界上没有一个人可以处处如意，一生中从不经历任何不如意。
There is no one in the world whose desires are always fulfilled, in whose life everything happens according to his or her wishes, without anything unwanted happening.
唯一的不如意是你与伙伴以及好朋友的关系，这周会有点考验。
The only downside is relations with partners and close friends are testy, especially this week.
倾听他人的建议而忽视自己内心的引导会让你感觉生活不如意。
Listening to the advice of others and ignoring your own inner guidance can keep you feeling stuck in life.
成不变的笑容，所以，希望你一眨眼睛，把不如意，都变成流星！
Into the same smile, so, I hope you blink, the unpleasant, have become meteors!
通常大部分顾客友善而愉悦，但遇到不如意只是，他们就会发脾气。
Generally most customers are friendly and jolly, but when something doesn't go their way tempers can flare. Being nice can really go a long way.
相比而言，在我认识的金融城分析师中，开心的很少，不如意的相当多。
By contrast, I know a few happy City analysts and quite a lot of miserable ones.
不是这么多这些让你不如意的事情让你焦虑而是你对这些事情的看法。
It is not so much adverse events that make you anxious as it is your thoughts about those events.
从那之后，我一直在惦记着他。特别是当生活不如意，或者当我孤独的时候。
Ever since, I have thought about him constantly, especially when life is hard for me or I'm lonely.
无家可归、内讧严重、连遭败绩已让巴基斯坦板球运动这一年过得并不如意。
HOMELESS, faction-ridden and riding a losing streak, Pakistani cricket was already having a bad year.
人可以从快乐变为不快乐，所以比起痛苦来说，幸福背后有着更多不如意的意外。
From being happy, one can become unhappy, so there are more unpleasant surprises in happiness than in unhappiness.
分析你所失败的事例，并找出失败的原因，在不如意时应寻求等值的正面回报。
Analyze all your setbacks and determine their causes. Discover the seed of equivalent benefit in each circumstance.
那么，我们不禁会问，当面对不如意的情境时，要如何才可以不盲目地产生反应？
So the question arises: how can we stop reacting blindly when confronted with things that we don't like?
生活中总有不如意的事情。为了更好的生活，你需要从另外一个方向乐观的看待生活。
In life there are always undesirable things, so in order to feel better you just need to look at life from another direction.
我受别人的冒犯时，当我遇到不如意的事情时，我只会流泪诅咒，却怎么笑得出来。
How can I laugh when confronted with man or deed, which offends me so as to bring forth my tears or my curses?
而且研究表明那些过得如意的人比不如意的人更长寿，犯罪机率更低，社会关系更稳定。
And studies show that contented humans live longer than miserable ones, and are less inclined to turn to crime and much more likely to form relationships.
天性使然，我们的想象力总是偏向最不如意的结果：新邻居总是多几分危险，尽管人家声誉良好；
It is human nature that our imaginations jump to the most unpleasant outcomes: the new neighborhood will be more dangerous despite its excellent reputation;
在生活中许多人开始时很好，但结果却不如意，这是因为他们没为可能出现的陷阱做打算。
Many people in life start out well but they end up poorly because they don't plan for the pitfalls.
你应该记住尽管生活充满了不如意的事情，但是我们应该拥有一段让人满意的生命体验。
You should remember that life is full of unpleasant things, but we should have a satisfying life experience.
我突然间顿悟了……“不如意的日子只是个选择而已”……我之前选择了自己不期望的事情。
The epiphany hit me like a ton of bricks…“bad days are a choice”…I had been previously choosing something that I did not want.
我突然间顿悟了……“不如意的日子只是个选择而已”……我之前选择了自己不期望的事情。
The epiphany hit me like a ton of bricks…“bad days are a choice”…I had been previously choosing something that I did not want.
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