然而，两个方面情况并不如意。
There are, however, two areas in which things are not going well.
合理对待生活中的不如意和厌倦感
Step 2: Deal with the dissatisfaction and boredom in your life.
生活中种种不如意真的可以打倒我们。
生活不如意时，不要捡起那块小石头。
资本家这周过得并不如意。
试着笑对生活的不如意。
如果你生活得不如意，你有力量去改变它。
If your life is not what you want it to be, you have the power to change it, and you must make the change on a moment by moment basis.
不如意的时候不要尽往悲伤里钻，想想有笑声的日子吧。
Do not put yourself in the deep of sorrow when you feel unpleasant, think about the days with laughters.
玛丽碰到生活不如意时总是会开着她的货车离家。
Mary always got in her van and ran away when life was tough .
我曾有很多不如意的机会，但是我没有理会它们。
I've had plenty of opportunities, but I haven't taken any of those opportunities.
我们很年轻，所以如果有什么不如意，可以从头再来。
Because we are so young, when some matters come, we just do it all again.
不如意时，要有解决问题的决心，也要有放松的心态。
During difficult times, be committed to resolving problems, but also lighten up and ride the waves of impermanence.
第二点是记住“人生总有不如意时”，因此要居安思危。
The second lesson was to remember that "sometimes life can turn sour", and to be prudent.
这一结果并不如意，但不用为公司老板郑裕彤感到难过。
That may be less lucrative than it hoped for, but do not shed any tears for Cheng Yu-tung, the firm’s billionaire boss.
当体制不如意时，在体制内改良的效果不会差于直接对抗。
You can have as much, if not more, impact by working within the system than by confronting it when it doesn't work the you want it to.
在你的职业生涯中，有时候会是机会很好，但是薪水不如意。
At some point in your career, the chances are good that you'll feel unsatisfied with your salary.
男人跟一个女人结婚，万一婚姻不如意的话也是浪费她的青春。
If a man marries a woman but their marriage is not successful, he is wasting her time, too.
现在回想起来，玛德琳意识到她在大学里的爱情生活并不如意。
Looking back, Madeleine realized that her college love life had fallen short of expectations.
世界上没有一个人可以处处如意，一生中从不经历任何不如意。
There is no one in the world whose desires are always fulfilled, in whose life everything happens according to his or her wishes, without anything unwanted happening.
通常大部分顾客友善而愉悦，但遇到不如意只是，他们就会发脾气。
Generally most customers are friendly and jolly, but when something doesn't go their way tempers can flare. Being nice can really go a long way.
相比而言，在我认识的金融城分析师中，开心的很少，不如意的相当多。
By contrast, I know a few happy City analysts and quite a lot of miserable ones.
所以当生活不如意的时候（虽然这样的情况并不多），他宁愿喝苏格兰威士忌。
When life got too much (as it seldom seemed to), he preferred Scotch.
从那之后，我一直在惦记着他。特别是当生活不如意，或者当我孤独的时候。
Ever since, I have thought about him constantly, especially when life is hard for me or I'm lonely.
无家可归、内讧严重、连遭败绩已让巴基斯坦板球运动这一年过得并不如意。
HOMELESS, faction-ridden and riding a losing streak, Pakistani cricket was already having a bad year.
人可以从快乐变为不快乐，所以比起痛苦来说，幸福背后有着更多不如意的意外。
From being happy, one can become unhappy, so there are more unpleasant surprises in happiness than in unhappiness.
那么，我们不禁会问，当面对不如意的情境时，要如何才可以不盲目地产生反应？
So the question arises: how can we stop reacting blindly when confronted with things that we don't like?
生活中总有不如意的事情。为了更好的生活，你需要从另外一个方向乐观的看待生活。
In life there are always undesirable things, so in order to feel better you just need to look at life from another direction.
而且研究表明那些过得如意的人比不如意的人更长寿，犯罪机率更低，社会关系更稳定。
And studies show that contented humans live longer than miserable ones, and are less inclined to turn to crime and much more likely to form relationships.
天性使然，我们的想象力总是偏向最不如意的结果：新邻居总是多几分危险，尽管人家声誉良好；
It is human nature that our imaginations jump to the most unpleasant outcomes: the new neighborhood will be more dangerous despite its excellent reputation;
在生活中许多人开始时很好，但结果却不如意，这是因为他们没为可能出现的陷阱做打算。
Many people in life start out well but they end up poorly because they don't plan for the pitfalls.
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