I would have poured my spirit without stint But not through wounds; not on the cess of war.

我会毫不吝啬的盈满我的灵魂,但绝不是通过创伤才走向成熟，也不是靠幸运赢得战争。

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So, for instance, there's no evidence that oral and anal characteristics, the personality characteristics I talked about about being needy versus being stingy relate in any interesting way to weaning or toilet training.

比如，并没有证据表明,我们之前所讲到的，粘人的口腔期人格特征,和吝啬的肛门期人格特征,与断奶或是如厕训练之间,存在任何关系。

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