Many years ago a colleague of mine gave me a quotation from William Barrett I can't cite the quotation exactly, but it speaks about making one's mind so much like a mirror that others will see themselves in your presence.

多年前我的一个同事和我说过,一段William，Barrett的话,原话我不记得了，说的是让自己的思想成为一面镜子,让别人能从你的存在中看到他们自己。

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And as a starting point there's a lovely quote from the psychologist and philosopher William James that I want to begin with.

作为开始,有一个可爱的引言,是心理学家和哲学家,威廉，詹姆斯说的,我想用它做开始。

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