According to Eliot, the modern world lacks a center, a kind of set of collective beliefs and commitments that would enable communication between us.

根据艾略特所说，现代世界缺少一个中心，缺少一套共有的信仰和承诺,来促成人与人之间的交流。

耶鲁公开课 - 现代诗歌课程节选

What if you have intimacy,we share secrets, passion, we feel physically attracted to each other but we're not making any commitments here."

如果有亲近关系，和激情体验,但是不做承诺“

耶鲁公开课 - 心理学导论课程节选

The pressure points come when the issues are so close to the bone that a variety of people don't feel that they had the luxury to do that, that their interests, their commitments are threatened.

有时也有一些压力,这时话题通常比较敏感，许多人,觉得言论自由成为了一种奢侈品，他们的兴趣和信仰都受到了威胁。

普林斯顿公开课 - 人性课程节选

This is often the way relationships start "We like each other, I'm physically attracted to each other, I-- to you, I enjoy spending time with you but I'm not making any long-term commitments.

爱情经常以这种形式开场,我们喜欢对方，享受肌肤之亲-,享受一起度过的时光,但不做长远的承诺。

耶鲁公开课 - 心理学导论课程节选