But the explanation of what's bad for me,in his having died, is the fact that it's bad for him to have died.

但他的死亡对我来说不好的地方，却同样也是对他不好的方面。

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And the best explanation is to be had--T his is how the argument would go.

而最好的解释,论据应该是这样的。

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