"I am very disappointed because I do not know if we can have another one like him,"

VOA: standard.2009.06.28

Keep Him in mind if you say it, and Him only, and Him as He was and not as you'd like Him to have been.

把他放在心中如果你说的话，而且只有他，他应该是本来的样子，而不是你设想的他的样子。

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