If nothing else, showing that you've tried to solve the problem yourself before you take it farther makes it dear that you're not just a complainer.
如果没有其他的事情，在你进一步解决问题之前，表现出你已经尝试过自己解决问题，这会让人觉得你不是一个爱抱怨的人。
Some really cool things can emerge when you're not just stressing yourself out.
你不只是把自己弄得疲惫不堪时，一些很酷的事情就会出现。
If nothing else showing that you've tried to solve the problem yourself before you take it further, make it clear that you're not just a complainer.
在你采取进一步措施之前，先表现出你已经尝试过自己解决问题，向人表明你不是一个只会抱怨的人。
People tend not to realize that the first question you should always ask yourself, is this really just something that's well-known in disguise?
人们往往没有意识到，你应该经常问自己的第一个问题是，这真的只是众所周知的伪装吗?
If it's not a potluck, where everyone brings a dish, the host will possibly answer, "No, just yourself."
如果不是每人带一道菜的聚餐，主人很可能会回答：“不用，人来了就行。”
Share your problem with me and do not just try to solve it by yourself.
告诉我你的问题，不要只想着靠自己解决。
Styles, Not Trends: "If you just design for yourself, someone will identify with it," Smilovic says.
时尚不等于赶流行：艾米说：“就算你只打算为自己设计，也总会有人认同。
Do not tell yourself that it is not possible — no matter what your age, just go at your own pace.
不要对自己说不可能——不管你是什么年龄，只要按照自己的节奏前进就可以了。
It's done it's over so stop dwelling, choose to forgive yourself (it is a choice not just some feeling that washes over you), learn from it and move on.
做完就完了，不要老想着过去，选择原谅自己(这是一个机会)，从中吸取教训，继续前进。
So, if your style is not true to who you are, you're violating not just your writing, you're violating yourself.
因此，如果你的风格与你本人个性不符，你不仅亵渎了你的作品，也亵渎了你自己。
When you find yourself wanting to give in, give up or just not bother, don't.
当你发现自己想要屈服、放弃或者不屑做某事时，请停止。
Have you ever heard the phrase, “It’s not enough just to be yourself. You have to be your BEST self”?
你听过这句话吗，“做你自己是不够的，你必须要做最好的自己”？
And it's not just how much time you give yourself - it's what you do with that time.
然而，这并不仅仅是你给自己的准备时间——你用这些时间做什么事更加重要。
It's not failure if you "just" make a nice living for yourself.
如果你只是为了自己的美好生活，这并不意味着失败。
University and college is ultimately all about learning, not just about your chosen course but also about yourself - your own thoughts, views and opinions.
大学最基本还是关乎学习，但不只是课程学习，还包括自身的成长，你的思想、观点、见解日趋成熟。
With any part you play, there is a certain amount of yourself in it. There has to be, otherwise it's just not acting.
你饰演的每个角色中，必定要有一部分是与你自己融为一体的，不然就不叫演戏，叫撒谎。
Yet, if you are an entrepreneur in Europe, don't forget that the Valley exists. Measure yourself by "Valley standards," not just by your peers in Europe.
但如果你是一个欧洲创业者，别忘了硅谷的存在，通过“硅谷标准”来衡量自己，而不仅仅是欧洲同行。
Dramatically improving your educational credentials — not just picking up your umpteenth certification — is another way to get yourself out of a career rut.
大幅地提高你的教育资格水平——而不只是获得证书——是使你从职业的窠臼中摆脱出来的另一种方式。
If you don't have a habit of setting goals, and instead just leave yourself to daily mundanes, it's not surprising you are experiencing stagnation.
如果你没有制定目标的习惯，而只是让自己停留在世俗的普通的生活中，那你正面临着停滞不前就不足为奇了。
So trust may lend itself to better interpersonal intuition. And if you don't believe that, well, maybe you're just not being honest with yourself.
所以诚实有利于培养更好的对人际关系知觉。如果你不相信这个观点，也许……你可能只是对自己不够诚实。
I'm not suggesting that you cut yourself off from the world, just that setting some boundaries will help.
我不是建议你与世隔绝，只是设置一些界限会帮助你的生活条理化。
While we know that delegation is an essential management tool, there may be times where you have thought to yourself, "it's just not right to delegate this," and with good reason.
当我们了解到授权是一项重要的管理工具，就会有这样的时刻，你想到，“这样授权是不正确的”，而且你有很好的理由。
It is not just for the other person that you forgive, but for yourself, so you don't waste your life angry with someone or continue to hold a grudge.
这不仅仅是对于某个人的宽恕，而是宽恕你自己，所以你不必浪费生命生某人的气，或者一直对某人耿耿于怀。
And if you don't believe that, well, maybe you're just not being honest with yourself.
如果你不相信这个观点，也许……你可能只是对自己不够诚实。
When you find yourself wanting to give in, give up, or just not bother — don't.
当你发现自己想退缩、想放弃、或者只是懒得找麻烦的时候- 千万不要这么做。
Nevertheless, choose one idea that you will garner the greatest satisfaction not just for yourself, but to other people.
尽管如此，选一个不仅是你最满意的，同时也是别人最满意的想法。
That can be really, really hard at first. Apologizing isn’t easy because you’re not just admitting to a failure, you’re opening yourself up for the possibility that your apology will be turned down!
起初这真的是很难，道歉并不是那么容易的一件事，因为一旦你道歉了，就不仅仅是承认自己做错了那么简单，你还要做好准备，你的道歉很可能不被接受哦！
If you don't do that — if you quit on school — you're not just quitting on yourself, you're quitting on your country.
如果你们不这样做，如果你们辍学，你们不仅仅是自暴自弃，也是抛弃自己的国家。
If you don't do that — if you quit on school — you're not just quitting on yourself, you're quitting on your country.
如果你们不这样做，如果你们辍学，你们不仅仅是自暴自弃，也是抛弃自己的国家。
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