New research shows that biology, not parenting, is to blame.
新的研究显示，这种现象归咎于生理，而不是家庭教育。
It is also not selfless parenting.
这也不是无私的养育。
Still, not everyone agrees with the tiger mother's parenting style.
不过，并非所有人都赞同虎妈的育儿方式。
Parenting is not fully valued by society.
养育子女还没有得到社会的充分重视。
Other parenting and baby magazines claimed they did not airbrush pictures of babies but would remove "dribble".
其他的育儿和婴儿杂志宣称他们没有修改婴儿的图片，但是可能会去除“口水”。
They are not going to put on their best performance just after they laid their eggs, because they haven't invested that much time or energy in parenting yet.
它们不会在刚下蛋后就表现出最佳状态，因为它们还没有在养育孩子上投入那么多时间或精力。
Yes, I have tried to make things simple for my busy reader but parenting is NOT simple.
是的，我试过为忙碌的读者简化问题，但是育儿并不是一件简单的事。
Money does help us meet the aspects of parenting, but time has prove that the basic needs of each child is the time which you give for parenting, not the person.
钱虽然能在养育孩子方面满足我们的需求，但是实践证明了孩子的基本需要是你教育他的时间而不是你本人。
The quality of parenting, Biblarz and Stacey say, is what really matters, not gender.
比布拉兹和史黛丝说：父母对子女的养育质量是问题的真正所在，而不是性别。
Probably not, said Justine Roberts, the co-founder of online parenting group Mumsnet. "My gut reaction is that parents would worry about them distracting lessons."
“恐怕不会的”，在线育儿组织Mumsnet的共同创办人JustineRoberts说道，“我的本能反应就是家长们会担心孩子们上课不认真听讲。”
This certainly was not easy because the need to control can be very powerful-particularly in parenting, where our fears are so powerful.
这当然不容易，因为控制的需要也很强大，尤其是父母对子女的养育，在此我们的恐惧也很强大。
“I sort of feel like people are not that honest about their own parenting, ” she said.
“我总觉得家长们对于他们教育孩子的方法总是不那么诚实，”她说。
This means that not only do we seek advice on parenting matters, we are also all very willing to dole it out as well.
也就是说，我们不仅要寻求育儿问题的建议，而且非常愿意与他人分享自己的意见。
Parenting is bi-directional–the kind of child that is born to you determines how you parent–and parents are not the only influence on their children.
教育孩子是一个双向行为，你生出的孩子是什么样决定了你做父母的方式，并且父母并不是影响孩子的唯一因素。
For what is, at root, a genetic phenomenon, that is a lot-yet many studies have shown that ADHD is indeed genetic and not, as was once suspected, the result of poor parenting.
根本上，ADHD是一种遗传现象，已经有大量的研究表明实际上adhd是可遗传的，而不是我们曾经猜想的因家教不当造成的结果。
So I'll admit it: My kids are not perfect. My parenting isn't perfect. And I know I am not alone.
因此我承认：我的孩子们不算尽善尽美，我做母亲不够尽职尽责。但我也知道：我并不孤单。
Furthermore (and this Chua doesn't appreciate), she is not really rebelling against American-style parenting; she is the logical extension of the prevailing elite practices.
此外(蔡美儿并不赞同)，她并不是真的反叛美国式育儿，她是主流精英教育的合理延伸。
Much if not most of parenting is what I call present-but-not-interacting time.
很多或许不是大部分的抚养被我称之为面对面但无交流时间。
What do you think of the parenting techniques Chua described—for instance, not letting her kids watch TV?
那你怎么看待蔡女士描述的教育方法——比如，不允许她的孩子看电视？
Parenting is a very difficult, stressful job, and many people who read the data discover they are not the only ones who feel overwhelmed by the tough work.
育儿是一项非常艰巨、充满压力的工作，许多看过研究报告的人发现他们并不是唯一不堪这项艰巨工作重负的人。
So I'll admit it: My kids are not perfect. My parenting isn't perfect.
因此我承认：我的孩子们不算尽善尽美，我做母亲不够尽职尽责。
Not many couples truly share the load equally, but where it does feel shared, the husband and wife are happier as a couple and their parenting is more effective and nurturing.
虽然不是所有的夫妻都会平摊家庭负担，但是那些共同分担的夫妻却比其他夫妻更加幸福，而且培养孩子时会更加得心应手和有效。
Here, as elsewhere, parenting practices are always changing — the Tiger Mother, if she ever existed, is not as fierce as she once was.
家长们的教育手法也在不断变化，“虎妈妈”，即使她曾经存在过，现在也比以前温和多了。
Stacey DeBroff advises parents to develop their own style of parenting and not just repeat the way they were raised.
迪柏夫建议家长找到自己的教育方法，而不是重复上一辈对自己的教育方式。
I'm not alone in adopting this duplicitous parenting style.
在实施这狡猾的父母态度方面我并不孤单。
Many new questions arise when factoring children into the dating equation, ones you may not have faced when building a relationship in your pre-parenting years.
如果你没有把孩子考虑进你的约会关系中，很多问题就会出现，而这些问题是你做父母这几年没有遇见过的。
Many new questions arise when factoring children into the dating equation, ones you may not have faced when building a relationship in your pre-parenting years.
如果你没有把孩子考虑进你的约会关系中，很多问题就会出现，而这些问题是你做父母这几年没有遇见过的。
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