I think that you don't really have self possession if you choose to live in a society because you cannot just discount the people around you.
我认为，如果你选择生活在社会中，就不可能完全拥有自我，因为你不能无视周围的人的存在。
We live with a value system that I call the Extrovert Ideal—the omnipresent belief that the ideal self is gregarious, and comfortable in the spotlight.
我们生活在一个我称之为“外向理想型”的价值体系中——一个无处不在的信念，即理想的自我是善于交际的，在聚光灯下感到舒适的。
I asked mother—and she said she'd ask Mrs. Medlock her own self.
我问了妈妈，她说她自己也要问问梅洛太太。
I felt so self-conscious under Luke's mother's intense gaze.
在卢克母亲热切的注视下，我感到很不自在。
I seem to have lost all my self-confidence.
我好像已经丧失了所有的自信。
I want to explore and get in touch with my inner self.
我想认真探索，了解我内在的个性。
You're self-employed, I gather.
我想你是个体经营吧。
I felt a bit self-conscious in my bikini.
穿着比基尼，我感到有点难为情。
I thanked my parents for all their self-sacrifice on my behalf.
我感谢父母为我所做的一切牺牲。
I hope the graphs on the following pages are self-explanatory.
我希望以下几页图表能一目了然。
I think it would be a gross distortion of reality to say that they were motivated by self-interest.
我认为说他们被自身利益所驱使是对事实的公然扭曲。
In their presence I became self-conscious and tongue-tied.
当着他们的面，我变得难为情，说不出话。
Going back to college has increased my confidence and I feel much more self-aware.
重回大学增强了我的自信，使我更加了解自己。
I wanted to know why so I began self-monitoring to try to understand my behavior.
我想知道为什么，所以我开始自我监督来试图理解我的行为。
Under the inspiration of my parents, I regained my self-confidence.
在父母的鼓舞下，我找回了自信。
I told her to create a picture of what self-assured would look like.
我让她想象一下她充满自信的样子。
For example, I've always assumed people who frequently use words like "I", "me", and "mine" are probably more self-centered than people who don't.
例如，我总是假设经常使用“我”和“我的”等词的人，可能比不经常使用的人更以自我为中心。
For some women I know, this sense of trust and self-belief later in life gave them the courage to leave dysfunctional relationships or embark on new career paths.
对一些我认识的女性来说，这种信任感和自信心在日后给了她们离开不正常人际关系的勇气，或是从事新职业的勇气。
I mean, technically, if I want to personally go out and kill someone because he offends me, that is self-possession.
我是说，准确来说，如果因为有人冒犯我，我想亲自出去杀了他，这也是自我控制。
I hope it's something you'd never have to use, but it's certainly worth going along to a few self-defence sessions.
我希望这是你永远都用不上的东西，但是去参加一些自卫课程当然是值得的。
The $11 billion self-help industry is built on the idea that you should turn negative thoughts like "I never do anything right" into positive ones like "I can succeed".
价值110亿美元的自助行业是建立在这样一个理念上的：你应该把诸如“我从来没有做对任何事”之类的消极想法转变成诸如“我可以成功”之类的积极想法。
I have visited some of the newer supposedly "effective" schools, where children shout slogans in order to learn self-control or must stand behind their desk when they can't sit still.
我参观过一些据说“有效”的新学校，在那里，孩子们喊着口号来学习自控，当他们不能安静地坐着时，必须站在桌子后面。
I wouldn't go back to the crippling self-consciousness of my youth if you paid me.
就算你给我钱，我也不会回到年轻时那种自我意识严重的状态。
The realizations I had in that process helped me gain insights and ultimately got me ready to integrate self-care into my daily life.
在这个过程中领悟到的认识帮助我获得了深刻的见解，并最终使我准备好将自我护理融入日常生活。
I'm self-employed, which means I work for myself and I do what I love.
我是个体经营者，这意味着我为自己工作，做我喜欢做的事。
I have hundreds of printer paper, covered in self-written notes from your video.
我有几百张打印纸，上面写的都是你视频里的笔记。
I mean, if you can just get over like being self-conscious, and just don't worry about being embarrassed.
我认为，如果你能够克服害羞，就不用担心尴尬了。
I would hope to persuade them to seek some alternative forms of, you know, self-improvement.
我希望劝说他们采用其它提升自己的方式。
I clearly had not found a way to help classes full of MBAs see that there is more to life than money, power, fame and self-interest.
我显然还没找到方法，让满教室的管理学硕士认识到：除了金钱、权力、名誉和私利，生活中还有更多比这些重要的东西。
After spending so much time hiding my true self, I finally felt that I'd had enough of that—I was really tired of pretending.
在隐藏真实的自己这么长时间后，我终于觉得受够了——我真的厌倦了伪装。
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