"It just makes things worse," said Apter.
“只是让事情更糟，”阿普特说。
"Offers to help are often perceived as criticism," Apter said.
“提供帮助往往被看作是批评，”阿普特说。
The author had anticipated the question in a preceding ch apter.
作者在前一章中就已经考虑到这一问题。
As Apter sums up in her book: "Each is the primary woman in her primary family."
正如阿普特在在她的书：“在她的“家庭中每个女人都是重要的”中所说的。”
On the contrary, some medium and small-scale importers may be apter to keep in touch and is close.
相反，一些中小型的进口商可能更容易接触和接近。
Dr Apter said one woman she spoke to began receiving messages from her mother-in-law-to-be two months before the wedding.
阿普特博士称，一位受访女性称，她在结婚前两个月就不断地收到婆婆的来信。
It's the disappointment felt by both women that "gives these relationships their distinctive negative charge," Apter says.
双方都感到失望，“给予这些关系独特的负面影响，”阿普特说。
The hacker is relatively apter to conceal the true identity, Put and make the ' black action ' instead of trap destruction.
黑客相对比较容易掩盖真实身份，摆下迷魂阵破坏“反黑行动”。
Terri Apter, a psychologist at the University of Cambridge in England and the author of The Myth of Maturity, calls them "thresholders.
英国剑桥大学心理学家及《成长的秘密》的作者Terri Apter称他们为“thresholders”。
Although she's a psychologist specializing in family relations, Apter admits that she has fallen into some common in-law traps herself.
虽然她是一个专业是家庭关系的心理学家，阿普特承认，她已落入一些常见的亲家陷阱里。
Assuming your daughter-in-law wants your advice. Most don't want to hear "this is what I did so this is what you should do," says Apter.
假设你的媳妇需要你的咨询。最不想听到“我这样做，你应该这样做的，”阿普特说。
As Apter explains, many situations can potentially arouse feelings of excitement or anxiety depending on how safe you believe yourself to be.
正如阿普特的论断，很多情况既可能使我们兴奋，也可能令我们恐惧，这完全取决于对自身安全的判定。
Goods fork sharp fork and wheel toper installation bracket design year, can protect year ship and drive wheel, it is apter to load and unload the tray too;
货叉尖叉和载轮上锥形安装托架设计，可保护载轮和驱动轮，也更易装卸托盘；
Those comparatively clever persons are apter to grasp forefathers' mental Labour achievement, can utilize social resources and natural resources more, the comparatively obtuse person is opposite.
那些较为聪明的人更容易掌握前人脑力劳动成果，能够更多地利用社会资源和自然资源，较为迟钝的人则相反。
Letting things slide at the start. If you find that your mother-in-law is interfering too much, or visiting too often, or offering too much advice, don't put off talking to her about it, says Apter.
如果您的婆婆干涉太多，或尝尝来探访，或提供太多的建议，不要推迟谈论她，阿普特说。
Letting things slide at the start. If you find that your mother-in-law is interfering too much, or visiting too often, or offering too much advice, don't put off talking to her about it, says Apter.
如果您的婆婆干涉太多，或尝尝来探访，或提供太多的建议，不要推迟谈论她，阿普特说。
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