Clementi was, in fact, a very good violin player: he played in both the Bergen Youth Orchestra and the Ridgewood Symphony, an adult orchestra.

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The dreaminess is underpinned by echoing violin, a guitar whose player has clearly placed offerings at the icon of Lindsey Buckingham, and an intuitive but gritty rhythm section.

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However, where jock culture starts morphing into rape culture is when coaches start asking for grade changes to keep a player eligible, or parents overvalue their basketball-playing child compared to their violin-playing child.

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