Unless the person you are attending the networking event with is going to make your quota for the year, you need a plan on how to attack the event, all while knowing you have a partner in crime on the scene should you need a self esteem pick me up.
This has allowed those in their early and mid-60s to transition to self-employment, part-time employment or even full retirement, knowing most of their health costs would be picked up by the government at 65.
Becoming a worthy leader is like developing any other capability: it requires honest self-reflection, real openness to learning (which includes an openness to being wrong and to not knowing), and a willingness to change your behavior.