When it catches a player by surprise then it's a case of explaining why, but life goes on.

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Management often does a pretty good job of explaining the business case.

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"It wasn't a conscious thing if that was the case, " said Marrone, explaining that he also spent time looking in the offense's direction to get a glimpse of the Bills' young group of receivers.

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"There are so many things just to get a note, all this coordination, which is very important in Mano's case, " he said, explaining that it's sometimes difficult for children with autism to perform several tasks at the same time.

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So a case such as this with male victims coming forward, explaining how conflicted they felt, why it took them so long, what it did to their lives, but nonetheless giving convincing testimony that has clearly been believed by the prosecutors and much of the press, this certainly must give other boys and men some sense of possibility.

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Another friend, Eve Martin, said Mrs Taylor had posted her a card two years before her disappearance explaining there was an envelope kept in her locked bedside drawer "just in case".

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The other day, I was explaining to my third graders that we were going to practice a lockdown just in case a bear happened to be on the playground -- a real scenario for our Colorado school.

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