由于他们温和、幽默，也由于他们能够为避免痛苦而克制自己，两人都成为别人前来求教的对象。
They had both become, by virtue of their moderation, their humour, and their abstinence from painful experience, people to whom others came FOR advice.
偏执的人必然绝对相信自己是正确的，而克制自己，保持正确思想，正是最能助长这种自以为正确和正直的看法。
Paranoia of people have no doubt that he is necessarily correct, but restrained myself, thinking of the right to maintain, it is best to encourage such an accurate and honest self-views.
男人更常藏起自己惊讶和害怕的表情，而女性则会努力克制自己厌恶、蔑视、生气等情绪在脸上的表现。
Men are more likely to hide surprise and fear while women control disgust, contempt and anger and many other emotions.
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