通过以一个特定的方式互动，我将利用这一新人以我的前男(女)友的方式行事，让我的美梦成真。

By interacting in a particular way, I will draw out of this new person behaviors my ex used to engage in. That's expectation becoming reality.

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在见家长前，问问你的男（女）朋友：“你父母喜欢你前任么，为什 么？”

Before you meet the parents, ask your boyfriend/girlfriend: "Did your parents like your ex?

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另外，在某些情况下，这些学生已经经历了“重新评价的成功”，这是一种神经学上的说法，意思是淡忘前男（女）友给他们带来的快乐——这是走出失恋阴影的第一步。

Plus, in some cases, students were already undergoing reappraisal success, which is neurological-speak for remembering the less convivial aspects of an ex — the first step in getting over him or her.

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The people who crossed the rickety bridge were more likely to call her up later and say, "Yeah. I'd like to talk about that experiment I was in.

前一组男学生,之后更可能联系这个女人说，“我想谈谈之前的实验。

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