现在，每当我听到朋友失去亲人，我不再打电话礼貌地提出“如果有什么我能做的……”相反，我试图想出一个特定的适合那人需要的任务，如带狗去寄宿养犬处，或在葬礼时看房子。

Now whenever I hear of a friend who's lost a loved one, I no longer call with the polite offer, "If there's anything I can do…" Instead I try to think of one specific task that suits that man's need, like taking the dog to the boarding kennel, or house sitting during the funeral.

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我会正面提出这些问题。我不会，也的的确确不能，给出答案，但是我会提供一套强有力的框架，从而帮助他们思考，而我项目中的参与者则能够运用这个框架想出自己独特的答案。

I don't, and indeed can't, provide answers, but I do provide a powerful framework for analysis, and participants in my program use that framework to come up with their own unique answers.

youdao

想出一些有趣的方法来提出你的观点，阐述给定的题目。

Come up with interesting ways to make your points and interpret the topic given.

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