我们被期望以相对沉默的形式来承受：坚强是我们行为的模板，而放声大哭和哭哭啼啼则是一种“向悲伤屈服”的表现——这也被认为是一种不好的应对方法。

We are expected to suffer it in comparative silence; being "strong" is the template; wailing and weeping a sign of "giving in to grief," which is held to be a bad way of "dealing with it."

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让所有的笙歌都沉默，为我哀怨这悲伤的时分。

Let all strike silence, sad for me this time of sorrow.

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让所有的笙歌都沉默，为我哀怨这悲伤的时分。

Lett all strike silence, sad for me this time of sorrow.

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