不要一直一个人讲话寻找话题，找出你俩身上的共同点。

Do not do all the talking. Ask questions to find out what you both have in common.

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她绞尽脑汁寻找稳妥的话题。

She cast around desperately for a safe topic of conversation.

《牛津词典》

他们总是在寻找关于他们感兴趣的话题的信息，寻找新的经验或机会来提高他们的知识或技能。

They are always searching for much information on a topic they're interested in and looking for new experience or opportunities to improve their knowledge or skills.

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It's a pseudo-initiative seminar, which is a special course that Princeton University has our interests in a certain topic and are able to find a professor who is willing to teach and able to teach that topic.

课程是源于一个匿名研讨会，它是普林斯顿大学提供的一门特殊课程,学生们可就自己对某一话题的兴趣，has，for，students，to…,寻找那些愿意,并且能够教导该方面知识的教授。

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