如果他拒绝，她会觉得他不礼貌。

She would think him churlish if he refused.

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如果他吃了蛋糕，它足可以要了他的命；如果他拒绝这么做，就会激怒太太而且她就会拒绝接纳他：一个双重约束。

If he eats the cake, it could kill him; if he refuses it, it will make his wife angry and she will reject him: a double bind.

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如果他拒绝改变，就强烈建议他改变或离开。

If he refuses, strongly recommend he change or leave.

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