心理学家托德·卡什丹对那些正在培养新爱好的人有如下建议:“作为一个新人,你还必须容忍和嘲笑自己的无知。”
Psychologist Todd Kashdan has this advice for those people taking up a new passion: "As a newcomer, you also have to tolerate and laugh at your own ignorance."
嘲笑别人可能会伤害他们的感情,即使你不是故意的,而嘲笑自己不会。
Laughing at someone else may hurt their feelings even if you don't mean to, while laughing at yourself does not.
而且最后我们想,即使你真的被关到监狱里,至少你还可以嘲笑自己愚蠢地被抓住了。
And finally, we thought, even if you do land in jail, at least you can laugh at your own stupidity for getting caught.
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